RELATIONSHIPS AND SOME REALITIES

SHARING OF PERSONAL EXPERIENCE

Published on November 1, 2006 By Wholesomewinner In Personal Relationships

Dear Blogers,

This is to share with you some realities of group living and personal relationships. I would like to your vies about it and share your experience about it.

I live with the group of Five people with a common cause. We are all of more or less of some age and experience. We are all above 55 years of age. Among us there are three men and 2 women. We are working together for a social and realigious cause. We are full of high values and idealism.

We a common goal to achieve. We want bring in radical social and religious reformation in the society, whereever we can. With this aim we plan and work. We right, speak and act according the situation and time.

THE POINT>
Now the point I want discuss here is the "perosnal relationship" between these highly ieal persons. Because of the highly motivated cause, we see to that we do not fight or quarrel with each other. Each adjusts with each other in such way that there is not embitterment or enemity with each other.

But fact is that there exists lots of hidden negative feeling for each other. We are unable to see the positive aspects of each others life and actions. Very often we are busy what mistakes the other person is making rather that encouraging the positive steps the other is taking! strange is it. But at the same time the common cause is of great value and all aim at it!

For example: One of us aged 65 and we may say the leader of the group, is very talkative. So talkative that others get boared up. Some tolerate others not so much! A highly motivated person. Has lots of ideas. He will put on his lights and fans and the computer in his office and never will he put it off till he goes to bed at 1.00 am or so. He may not be in the office all day, or he may be going and coming. But if he sees a fan or light on in other members office and if that person is not there, he will immediately put them off. Some times he will make some remarks too! The point I am making is, inspite of high idealism how we find it very difficult to build up a relationship.

Though enjoy the common cause for which I am in the company of this group feel sometimes unable to udjust myself with various personal needs. My point is that for the common cause we must overlook the small small matters that interfere in our personal relationships.

I am writing this beause, some of you also must be idealists and have lots ideas about how it works in the society.
Hope to hear you
wholesomewinner

Comments

Trudygolightly

on Nov 03, 2006

Hello:
I enjoyed reading your post, although the spelling mistakes make it difficult to follow. You could use spell checker perhaps?

I, being of the same age as your group, would imagine it's going to be difficult at best for this plan you have to work. If your group has had experience living with others, or having others in their home then perhaps the ajustment won't be so painful.

Maybe your group could have 1 hour a week to discuss their "gripes" or complaints and try to resolve them for the good of the cause.

Good Luck to your group and it's goals,
Trudygolightly

jennifer1

on Nov 03, 2006

Maybe your group could have 1 hour a week to discuss their "gripes" or complaints and try to resolve them for the good of the cause.

Wholesome:-
This is a good idea that Trudy has put forward.

Trudy:-

You could use spell checker perhaps?

see below

in their home then perhaps the ajustment won't be so painful.

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